Geoffrey John Thomas 1935-2009

June 6, 2009


Geoffrey John Thomas
8th February 1935 – 25th May 2009.


Geoff and Maria Thomas

Gail and I said farewell to my Father-in-law recently. A wonderful man in so many ways. For myself, I lost the father of the most important person in my life. Not only that, Geoff and I got on like a house on fire. Perhaps it had something to do with the fact he and I share the same birthday. Geoff, me and James Dean. We share the date with great company.  A fellow Aquarian.

Geoff suffered a vicious form of Alzheimer’s. Aside from affecting his mind, it attacked his body. As the disease progressed. I always felt Geoff was still there. As recent as last December, we were still talking politics and philosophy over lunch at our home. Even in the final days. As the family gathered around him. He was there. With us. Although he could not move or talk.  He was there. His body no longer responded to his thoughts.

We sang to him, touched him, talked to him. And every so often, we’d see his eyebrows twitch. Something they did when he smiled. For the first time in many years. Both Gail and her sister were together. With Dad. It was as beautiful as it was painful. Lasting a full week without water and food. The disease had taken his ability to swallow. I am convinced he knew we were all there and wanted to be with us as long as possible. His doctor said it was a testament to his fitness.

A Naval Officer in the Royal Navy and an engineer. We talked geeky tech talk often. He loved gadgets. He was known for his curiosity. Learning how things worked and then finding ways for whatever it was to function better.

The first time I saw this picture. I mistook the snake in his hand for a Martini.

The first time I saw this picture I mistook the snake in his hand for a Martini. He enjoyed a good drop.

He had a wonderful wit, and could spin a yarn better than  most.

Having had a less than stellar relationship with my own Father, I came to love Geoff as my Dad. He always accepted me for who I am. Never judgemental. I loved his little girl and he told me more than once he knew it. For that I am forever grateful.

Rest in Peace Dad. We love you. I love you. You are now part of the cosmos. Free again to explore. Bon Voyage!

5 Responses to “Geoffrey John Thomas 1935-2009”

  1. trouble97018 Says:

    All our sympathies to you and Gail, Jon.

    Blessed Be


  2. Jon Fox Says:

    Thank you Susan. He was a beautiful man.

  3. rantingkeyboard Says:

    Beautifully written, Jon.

    What a handsome man. And after reading his life’s story, he’s all the proof we need that beauty is NOT only skin-deep!

    Love, hugs and sympathies to you, Gail, and all the family.


  4. shinai Says:

    May he always live on in your hearts. In deepest Sympathy, Gene.

  5. thunderstone Says:

    Hey, Jon,

    I just found this wonderful remembrance. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and love. Your father-in-law sounds like he was a beautiful being — much fun, too :-). Someone I would have enjoyed meeting. My thoughts and love are with you and Gail and all of those who hold Geoff close in their hearts.

    Hope all is well on your end –

    Take care –


    P.S Hugs to all.

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